Getting Rid of the Clutter

‎”Reduce the complexity of life by eliminating the needless wants of life, and the labors of life reduce themselves.” – Edwin Way Teale

Last week someone told me a story that changed my life. It was a story about a woman who had just come to Canada. She entered the YMCA with her two children and a very small suitcase.  My friend (who told me the story) said she looked a little lost and asked her if she needed any help. After helping the woman, my friend handed her a business card and told her to call if she needed help. A week later she did.

She had been placed in a hotel and was using the food bank to feed her family using only a microwave. The only things she brought with her were the things in the little suitcase she carried with her. A suitcase with a plastic zipper.

My friend asked me if there was anything I could donate. I walked home that day, thinking about that woman and her children. She is one of many who come to Canada with nothing but the clothes on their backs, and their most precious possesions. Their children. As I walked through the front door of my house I thought, if I had 10 seconds to grab anything I could before my house exploded what would I take? All I could think of was my children (ok. and the dog) and my computer. Everything else means little to me. Of course TVs, books, furniture etc… all has worth, but they are replaceable.

In my quest for balance I have realized that we have too much stuff… stuff which clutters the mind.

Do my kids all that clothes? Less clothes = less laundry. And the books on the shelf that will never be read, like the “Encyclopedia of cats” given to me by a boss that I didn’t even like. Really? Someone who really likes cats might appreciate it, but I’ve never even opened it.

In my quest to simplify I found a blog, Becoming Minimalist, and I realized this is what I want to do. Become a Minimalist. Fill my house and my life with meaningful things and get rid of the clutter. Quality over quantity. Make more time for the things I love. Do not over consume and over spend on “things”. It’s not going to be easy, because when I am feeling down there is nothing better then some retail therapy. But the next time I find myself reaching for something I want to buy, I will think about that woman, and her little suitcase, and ask myself if I really need it.

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Trying to live a balanced life to the extreme.
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4 Responses to Getting Rid of the Clutter

  1. Jane Menard says:

    Thanks for that Mia. After Frank died I sold the house and moved to the cottage. I had to get rid of so many beautiful things. They were just things and they did nothing to comfort my broken heart.
    Last week I was looking for my water shoes and could not find them. It was like summer outside and I went for a paddle on the river in my kayak. I went without the shoes and got my feet all yucky. Now I want to find my water shoes again. Time to de clutter again. I guess I never really got the job done the first time. I’ll keep trying and I’ll think of the woman with her suitcase as I do.

    • fitlikemia says:

      Jane, I am so sorry to hear about Frank. I had no idea. I can’t even imagine. I hope you find your water shoes for the next sunny day… and mend your broken heart. Take care xoxo M

  2. Ashleigh Horricks says:

    Hey Mia,

    How old are her kids? Maybe ivy has some old stuff we can donate.

    I totally agree with the idea of quality over quantity and getting rid of clutter. I feel the same way!


    • fitlikemia says:

      The girl is 8 so Ivy’s clothes probably won’t fit her… but thanks for the offer. The mom needs clothes too… if you have anything you want to get rid of…M

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